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Is it embarrassing to have a boyfriend?

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Jowita Bydlowska
Nov 23, 2025
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Straight out of the gate: the real question should be: is it embarrassing to be embarrassed? I finally caved in and read the viral Vogue article, “Is it embarrassing to have a boyfriend?” by Chante Joseph, which I didn’t click on when it came out because it automatically made me tired reading that headline…

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