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The shame of being cheated on

A Zero-Tolerance Guide to Refusing Someone Else’s Shame

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Jowita Bydlowska
Dec 10, 2025
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My Death of an Open Marriage post got a lot of traction so I thought I’ll go back into the sad vault of toxic relationships past and pull out another topic. One that I discuss in my book a little bit, and one that I know a lot of women might be able to relate to, which is what it’s like to be cheated on. I’m only going to talk about women because I thin…

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