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Beauty is a genetic lottery just like mental illness
On the shallowest of rock bottoms: losing face
Apr 19
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Jowita Bydlowska
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MEMOIR CONFIDENTIAL: Writing What We Fear
From addiction and recovery to sex, identity, and aging, we talk about what it means to write while trusting the rawness of scenes and experience…
Apr 13
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Jowita Bydlowska
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34:09
I Published Two Memoirs and Then Wanted to Apologize to Everyone
The strange humiliation of turning your life into something people can review (but also, liking it)
Apr 7
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Jowita Bydlowska
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It Was Crazy to Hear Myself Record My Biggest Shames
It really was.
Apr 4
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Jowita Bydlowska
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Happy US Pub Day to Me!
An excerpt from my second memoir that is all about fucking up ...again
Apr 1
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Jowita Bydlowska
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March 2026
The Second Memoir & the Audacity: Lena Dunham, Lindy West, Me
“Wisdom is the daughter of experience.” — Leonardo da Vinci
Mar 30
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Jowita Bydlowska
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Where are the assholes who consider themselves Lindy West’s friends?
A room for violence, a room full of silence
Mar 26
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Jowita Bydlowska
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Addicts Make for Great Television, Don't They?
The Spectacle of Drunks on Reality Television
Mar 25
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Jowita Bydlowska
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7:37
"If people wanted you to write warmly about them, they should have behaved better.”
How to write a memoir
Mar 25
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Jowita Bydlowska
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2013, the year of Judgy Judy McJudgersons
An excerpt from Unshaming & a curious post on judgement from 2013
Mar 18
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Jowita Bydlowska
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Manosphere and the Boys Who Envy Us
The performance of power
Mar 17
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Jowita Bydlowska
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The Story of My Romance Scam (plus launching)
The story behind the story
Mar 14
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Jowita Bydlowska
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